After 3 years plus of marriage I finally managed to accept the fact that my hubby is not romantic. After seeing my previous post, he decided he want LCD TV and Oakley sunglasses for his birthday gift. Hmmm I guess it’s a good idea to get him the LCD TV since sharing the current TV is not working as plan… I prefer to watch ASTRO (especially since they have FOX channel nowadays) while hubby want to use the TV for his gaming purpose…
or .. I can give cash to hubby and ask him to buy what ever he want on his birthday. He did that on my birthday
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Tags: Hubby Birthday is less than 2 months and I don’t really know what should I get him. I did ask him and as usual the reply is so annoying… AT first he told me that he don’t want anything (normal template answer since 2003)… Then he changed his mind and told me he wants an Oakley Sunglasses … a week after that he told me no need to get him an Oakley as now he want an IKEA TV cabinet. Okay … That’s it!! No more gift request coz at the end he normally get all they gifts and I’ll end up broke.
Dear Hubby,
No more surprise gift this year. I’m gonna bring you to Bangkok, Thailand for your birthday (not on your birthday coz your birthday fall on Hari Raya). We will be staying at a farm (yes I did said farm!) :
Location : 234 Moo 7, Tumbon Suan Phung, Amphoe Suan Phueng, Changwat Ratchaburi 70180
Website : http://www.sceneryresort.com
The Scenery Resort
Here some sneak peaks on it :
Don’t worry my dear hubby they have wifi and ipod dock 
on top of that they have sheeps and cows as well hahahha.
Remember I used to complain about my direct reporting manager? I wanted to change department but it was unsuccessful … Wanted to change job / company but my late dad advised stop me and make me think twice. Now I hope I’ll stop complaining as I got what I wish for.
My direct reporting manager has been transferred and no longer a manager. I hope it’s for better and not for the worse … someone use to tell me : if you can’t beat them, join them … but if you can join them either you or them need to go …
My ex team lead ping me today. He was telling me that department would be hiring a new manager to replace her. I can sense that he’s trying to make me feel that he would be a good replacement for the manager post. Come on! Gimme a break … Do you really think I would give you my vote if customers have been complaining about you? With your attitude problem I would really dumb bimbo to even suggest your name as a manager!!
I don’t really know how such people have the courage of asking for a manager position. Don’t you feel ashamed when you got 3 complaints letter in 2 weeks? Don’t you feel down when you know you screw up a project/assignment? I guess some people just born with thick skin.
On Tuesday June 08, 2010 around 7:15 am I lost my beloved Ayah (dad). I tried to be strong but the tears in my eyes keep on flowing. I used to call Ayah almost every day and now when he’s gone I truly miss him a lot. I’m so fortunate to have a good man as my Ayah. Since I was young he would do his best for his family.
I need stop writing now as I can’t stop crying while writing about Ayah…
I’ve been depressed on not having a child for years (Well we have been married for 3 years). .. Recently I got to know that I’m not the only one among my colleague that been trying with luck. It surprised me to know that most of my office colleagues are actually trying for the past 5 to 7 years. Some has done 2 to 3 times of IVF (no luck till now) while some under go up to 3 operations/ surgeries.
Last month (or may be a month before) hubby and I decided that we gonna enjoy our life as DINK (Dual Income No Kid). We would be going for short break in Singapore on June 12, 2010. We are also planning for our Ausie trip in July or early August and in December or January if financial permit we might go for Europe trip.
We are also planning to get another car (hubby need a golf for his golf session) early next year. At first we were thinking of getting the new Hyundai Tucson but after some financial constrain we decided to wait till end of the year. Some did ask us why we aren’t getting a house yet. Well to be frank we like our current house environment and Insha’Allah we might consider buying a house in this neighborhood soon. Whether it’s an intermediate or corner just let our budget do the talking.
I’m thankful to God for the good life I’m living. I got a good job (even though most of the time I complaint about it), a loving family + friend and a good husband that loves me for who I am.
If you noticed I don’t really praised my hubby much. Well to let you know he’s a good husband. Sometime we did have a fight but that just how marriage life is. You need to learn to accept the bad manner and side as well. I read about wife being abuse and hits by their husband in News. Thanks goodness my husband never laid a hand on me. He would try to give me everything that within his power (and budget of coz). Whenever I asked for something he would say this “If you like it, just buy it” and that always make me having second thought. I would do all the calculation and then change my mind. For example last week we were doing windows shopping at The Garden. We stop by Kate Spade boutique and I saw a handbag that I kind of like it. Hubby already brings it to the cash register and then my mind start making the normal calculation (handbag cost – handbag usage)… we end up no buying it even though it was dirt cheap. I wish I got the handbag and just let hubby pay for it. Yesterday when I walked pass Kate Spade I saw that the handbag has been sold to someone else. Sigh! I need to train my brain to stop making this kind of calculation.
I’m going Singapore soon and hopefully I can do some shopping during the GSS 2010. The promotion looks good with most of the boutique having up to 50% and 70% discount. I desperately need to get some working attire and shoes.
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