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Dear lil bro,

Happy 19th birthday !!!

I know that now days, life seem empty with ayah around but please be strong.

I’ll try to get you birthday gift soon.

Warmest thoughts I send today,

To last the whole year through,

Wishes also that life is Always good to you…

As each and everyday goes by,

Remember I love you lots I want the very best for you,

And you’re deep within my thoughts

Happy Birthday Brother!!

-Your Eldest Sis-

Ina

After 3 years plus of marriage I finally managed to accept the fact that my hubby is not romantic. After seeing my previous post, he decided he want LCD TV and Oakley sunglasses for his birthday gift. Hmmm I guess it’s a good idea to get him the LCD TV since sharing the current TV is not working as plan… I prefer to watch ASTRO (especially since they have FOX channel nowadays) while hubby want to use the TV for his gaming purpose…

or .. I can give cash to hubby and ask him to buy what ever he want on his birthday. He did that on my birthday

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hmmmm

Hubby Birthday is less than 2 months and I don’t really know what should I get him. I did ask him and as usual the reply is so annoying… AT first he told me that he don’t want anything (normal template answer since 2003)… Then he changed his mind and told me he wants an Oakley Sunglasses … a week after that he told me no need to get him an Oakley as now he want an IKEA TV cabinet. Okay … That’s it!! No more gift request coz at the end he normally get all they gifts and I’ll end up broke.

Dear Hubby,

No more surprise gift this year. I’m gonna bring you to Bangkok, Thailand for your birthday (not on your birthday coz your birthday fall on Hari Raya).  We will be staying at  a farm (yes I did said farm!) :

Location : 234 Moo 7, Tumbon Suan Phung, Amphoe Suan Phueng, Changwat Ratchaburi 70180

Website : http://www.sceneryresort.com

The Scenery Resort

Here some sneak peaks on it :

Don’t worry my dear hubby they have wifi and ipod dock on top of that they have sheeps and cows as well hahahha.

I’ve been depressed on not having a child for years (Well we have been married for 3 years). .. Recently I got to know that I’m not the only one among my colleague that been trying with luck.  It surprised me to know that most of my office colleagues are actually trying for the past 5 to 7 years. Some has done 2 to 3 times of IVF (no luck till now) while some under go up to 3 operations/ surgeries.

Last month (or may be a month before) hubby and I decided that we gonna enjoy our life as DINK (Dual Income No Kid). We would be going for short break in Singapore on June 12, 2010. We are also planning for our Ausie trip in July or early August and in December or January if financial permit we might go for Europe trip.

We are also planning to get another car (hubby need a golf for his golf session) early next year. At first we were thinking of getting the new Hyundai Tucson but after some financial constrain we decided to wait till end of the year. Some did ask us why we aren’t getting a house yet. Well to be frank we like our current house environment and Insha’Allah we might consider buying a house in this neighborhood soon. Whether it’s an intermediate or corner just let our budget do the talking.

I’m thankful to God for the good life I’m living. I got a good job (even though most of the time I complaint about it), a loving family + friend and a good husband that loves me for who I am.

If you noticed I don’t really praised my hubby much. Well to let you know he’s a good husband. Sometime we did have a fight but that just how marriage life is. You need to learn to accept the bad manner and side as well. I read about wife being abuse and hits by their husband in News. Thanks goodness my husband never laid a hand on me. He would try to give me everything that within his power (and budget of coz). Whenever I asked for something he would say this “If you like it, just buy it” and that always make me having second thought. I would do all the calculation and then change my mind.  For example last week we were doing windows shopping at The Garden. We stop by Kate Spade boutique and I saw a handbag that I kind of like it. Hubby already brings it to the cash register and then my mind start making the normal calculation (handbag cost – handbag usage)… we end up no buying it even though it was dirt cheap. I wish I got the handbag and just let hubby pay for it. Yesterday when I walked pass Kate Spade I saw that the handbag has been sold to someone else. Sigh! I need to train my brain to stop making this kind of calculation.

I’m going Singapore soon and hopefully I can do some shopping during the GSS 2010. The promotion looks good with most of the boutique having up to 50% and 70% discount.  I desperately need to get some working attire and shoes.

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Hubby and I went to The Garden after MST to survey for ladies golf set. The price is more expensive than MST so no golf set for me. MST price RM3045 while Isetan price was RM4250. Wanted to get the RM 799 set from MST coz I don’t think I’m gonna like golf that much but hubby said NO coz the brand is unknown. Hubby bought a putter coz it’s cheaper by RM20 from MST.

Hubby drag me to Coach boutique and ask me to choose a handbag to replace my current dying handbag. Nothing really catch my eyes. May be I don’t really like to follow the current trendy style of handbag. I don’t know … I guess I’m just too old fashion and not fashionable. Or may be I saw too many coach in my office.

We also stop by at Ferragamo at Isetan. One handbag catch my eyes. Not too big not too small … Just perfect. The Salvatore Ferragamo Safari Calfskin Shoulder Bag looks classic. The one that I saw is in white. This bag was seen on Jessica Simpson in bright green.

The price tag make me put it down almost immediately. Hubby make me an offer and the offer come with condition (as usual) :

1. Ferragamo handbag  but NO Singapore Trip

or

2. Coach Handbag + Singapore Trip.

I really like the Ferragamo handbag…. at the same time I also wanna do some shopping in Singapore. Guess I need save on my own if I want Ferragamo as Singapore trip is more toward spending some quality time with hubby. After all I already booked Hilton Orchard for our trip .